Negative Essays
on Death, Love, and Depressive Realism
BOOK ABSTRACT
While belonging to the tradition of philosophical pessimism and negative philosophy, these essays approach love, rather than mortality, as what most deeply wounds being. Love knows the darkest truth that death only conceals. The book consists of thirteen Negative Essays, including Feminist Satanism, Depression as Compassion, and Trauma as Initiation.
a philosophy of love, trauma, depression, suicide, motherhood, Satan, entropy, and aging — written against therapeutic culture and the tyranny of positivity
ON NEGATIVE ESSAYS
“Negative Essays is a brave, unsettling, and deeply moving book. Julie Reshe refuses every easy consolation and every therapeutic injunction to transform suffering into recovery. Through death, depression, humor, love, motherhood, disability, and aging, she develops a radically relational account of existence: we do not suffer alone, because we never exist alone. Negativity is not the opposite of love but its most intimate condition—the wound through which we are exposed to one another. At once philosophically incisive and painfully personal, these essays bring thought as close as possible to what thought usually keeps at a distance. A remarkable and necessary book.”
— Catherine Malabou
“Julie Reshe is the philosopher of the negative. In addition to her radical reading of the death drive, Reshe here develops a negative philosophy that undermines previous forms of pessimism by locating negativity in our essential involvement with others, not in isolation. It is precisely this involvement with others that is the source of the worst of our wounds rather than any existential loneliness. Reshe radically redefines negativity and the idea of community by turning all expectations about both on their heads. It’s a startling book not to be missed by anyone who’s ever felt destroyed by someone else.”
— Todd McGowan
“I pride myself on knowing Hegel’s “night of the world”: that pure abyss of negativity that constitutes the subject. And yet Negative Essays is like a map that marks the location of the candle I secretly lit in the basement, the cupboard light that glows through the cracks of a closed door, the torch I’ve hidden under the duvet.
These essays are so uncompromising that they rob the reader of that last defence against the suffering of being: reflection upon it. While the work is philosophically rich, the words have such an existential intensity that you cannot help but feel the burn of the black sun they describe.
There is no escape into fantasy here. No therapeutic cure, political utopia or religious salvation. So, with all that in mind, why would I ever put myself through the hell of reading these essays? Because of the sheer enjoyment each one produces.”
— Peter Rollins
CONTENTS
Preface
Essay 1. Humor and Depressive Realism: Laughter as an Embodiment of the Death Drive
Essay 2. Therapeutic Society, Toxic Positivity, Critical Psychology
Essay 3. Feminist Satanism: An Ontology of Destruction
Essay 4. Trauma as Initiation: Toward a Negative Theory of Trauma
Essay 5. Depression as Compassion: Nearness to the Wound of Being
Essay 6. Between Us, Death: Being-with-towards-death
Essay 7. Suicide That Is Not One’s Own
Essay 8. Non-Therapy for a Narcissist
Essay 9. Unbecoming: Maternal Ontology and the Undoing of the Subject
Essay 10. Feminist Depressive Realism: PMS and the Tragic Grace of Cheerfulness
Essay 11. The Entropic Ouroboros
Essay 12. The Inverted World: Autism, Introversion, and the Norm of Extraversion
Essay 13. The Negative Body: Disability and Aging as Destructive Plasticity
BOOK ABSTRACT
This book is a negative alternative to the positive orientation of popular psychology and current therapeutic culture. Unlike them, it is not striving to save anyone or improve anything. It is aimed at those to whom the positive approach feels dishonest and irrelevant. It offers in three main chapters a ‘depressive realist’ perspective that explores the structural role of death, negativity and tragedy in relation to the individual psyche, society, and nature. It explores the possibility of negative psychoanalysis, which would embrace the disaster of human existence instead of adopting positive escapist positions.
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in 2024, the book Negative Psychoanalysis for the Living Dead was recognized as one of the 20 best books in the field of psychoanalysis.
EXPERT FROM THE BOOK REVIEW
'It has swiftly become a subject of widespread discussion and interest, capturing the attention of many. This book diverges from traditional norms in several key aspects. It is explicitly stated as not being “recommended for anyone. In her interviews, Reshe cautions that readers might regret engaging with its contents. However, the experience of reading it often proves to be the opposite – akin to finding a friend who is willing to listen patiently to one's deepest grief and darkest musings. The book's defining characteristic is its refusal to offer salvation or aspire to clarify or improve anything. Reshe posits that proposing salvation or improvement inherently involves a denial of life's darker aspects. The book appears to assume the role of a listener rather than that of a speaker, creating a space of understanding rather than providing guidance'
EXPERT FROM THE BOOK REVIEW
'Negative Psychoanalysis For The Living Dead strikes me as a work of peculiar and particular rebellion. In The Rebel, Camus affirmed rebellion as no-saying that retains a hidden positivity; REshe’s negativity is a no-saying that hides a positive affirmation of the experience of sadness, pessimism and depression. What this positive affirmation is ultimately rooted in is empathy; rather than pathologising and pushing the notion that people’s experiences of the world are wrong, Rishe wants to encourage a kind of kindness that is open to the darkest and most challenging aspects of life.'
Julian Langer (2026). Negative Psychoanalysis For The Living Dead:
Interviews from 'Negative Psychoanalysis'
Interviews from 'Negative Psychoanalysis'


The Death Drive, Politics, and Love: a conversation between Todd McGowan and Julie Reshe

Destructive plasticity, War, and Anarchism: a conversation between Catherine Malabou and Julie Reshe







